I have actually said this sentence while driving at least 20 times in my life: “Why is there traffic today?” My expectation of no traffic was not based on fact. I had not checked to see if it was a gridlock alert day. I did not examine the latest accident report or construction map. In other words, I had no objective information to support my statement. Besides annoying everyone riding in the car, I realize that drawing conclusions without facts is not the best way to naviga

“Children should be seen and not heard.” My parents loved to take that old expression out for a spin every once in a while. It was never taken seriously. The three of us loved to talk. Knowing my place and shutting up was never an option. There was usually too much information being shared as opposed to not enough. Not all families operate like that. Elder Law is an education in family dynamics and communication. More than a few parents subscribed to that old express

The virtues of aging at home have been trumpeted for decades. A home can be modified and adapted for a homeowner’s continued use while still maintaining familiarity and continuity. Home health aides can be hired for day-to-day care and trips to senior centers can provide the necessary social stimulation. The argument in favor of staying in one’s home and fighting the good fight is persuasive most of the time. Experience has taught me that simple narratives do not always t